Wanted: Perfect Marriage
Two months from now, we are celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary (again). Because we are rich, we got married twice. Hahaha! Nah, my dearest diva mader will never forgive me if I don’t get married in church. Seriously, I wish we did not spent that much money. Should ha ve opted for a bigger diamond (greedy…greedy…greedy). Apparently, Scott believe I should get the best wedding, so that I will always remember it for the rest of my life…sweet!
The truth is…of course not. When I’m angry, piss and furious all I can think is to torture him with the cockroach, scare him to death with grasshopper or get even…serve him with pig’s tongue or dinuguan (pork blood stew). Funny thing about marriage, there’s no handbook that tells you the right formula. If someone tells me that their marriage is easy, I wanna slap that person. Teh, wala ka sa Hollywood. Kaya huwag na magambition maging best actress. There were moments in my life, I had thought of giving up. Wait…..it does not include my shoes and LV’s. Not a conjugal property ok. Sometimes..errr…ok…most of time…the reasons are senseless and stupid. Dahil sa kakalatan nya, nagsuot ako ng ninja outfit ko plus karate kid. Come to think of it, why its seems easier to forgive your enemies than the one you love? Ridiculous, right?
But then, I don’t have ambition to become a saint. So, it’s ok to be a bitch. I know, most of us believe that the person we love shouldn’t cause us pain or at least, not try to hurt us. Hello…hello world!? Planet of the universe, wake up. And worst, we are so aware that they too are just human like us, who is imperfect in every sense. Yet, we try to be blind to the truth, that not a soul can guarantee us happiness. And this is what I learned from my marriage. Yet, we want to convince ourselve that there are such thing as happily ever after…Who doesn’t want to live in fairy tales?
After 6 years, I learned each day by heart the word commitment. Fine, sometimes I forgot…like when there is sign…SALE. I’m just a diva, you know with so many needs. It is no longer a word that just pass through my mini brains. I digest and absorb every letter. Easy to say but hard to achieve. Yet, the most important factor in every relationship in order to flourish. There is no such thing as one way. Errr..kasi i’m two way ang lola mo. Hahahaha! That is why there are 4 seasons di va? Because it’s not everyday the sun shines ever…haler! Commitment is the one of the strand that can weathers the storms when things gets complicated and thorny.
I don’t believe in forever…eat tayo together. But what I know, Scott and I are very much committed to this marriage. One way or another, we might (or we will) fail each other…it’s not even a question…hahahaha…and it’s all right because we knew if one of us forgets…the other one will remind the promise we vowed…and that is…no matter what…I won’t give up my LV’s! Hahahaha!
Happy Morning!
Hi Eloi! Thanks…sana maalala ko rin siya everyday. Hehehe! How are you?
Hi Min! Yes, umaabot rin ako ng 6 years..who would have thought? Hahaha! I hope so too. Thanks. How are you?
That's the word dear, that's the word… 'COMMITMENT'. Congrats to both of you for keeping your marriage commitment seriously.
Congrats to both of you for keeping your marriage more stronger…..parang kailan lang noh?6 years na kau..take care always…mwaaah….
Hi Maricel! Hahaha..korek…ito yong mga walang magawa pagweekends. Kamusta na ikaw?
Thanks Shobs/Ninang! You are the best. Miss you both. Muah!
Thanks Xtine! Happy naman ako at natuwa kayo sa blog ko na puro vakla ang mga salita.
Mabuhay to the Silbernick's, well done Diva & Kuya Scott;) nabasa namin ni Juan yung blog mo this morning, tawa kame ng tawa, great way to start our Sunday! keep it coming
wow..ngdeclame ang lola….hehehe….but that's true…in every marriage the only thing that keeps u together is ur commitment with each other…Stay inlove ms.diva!
Hi Tess! Thanks roommate. Me too, I can't believe its' been 6 years na ende siya nasarian ng bait sa akin. Hahaha! Ok, Take care and stay happy.
Well, I think we only made it this long because Ria wasn't paying attention…now that she's aware that it's been six years, I need to be very careful!!
Hi Maricel! Teh, relax lang. Ganun talaga pag asa abroad. Nosebleed talaga sa kakakayod. Just have fun with it. Take care.
Sweetie…you're really paying attention to me. I wish you luck now. Hahaha!
Happy Anniversary to you and scott! whew! six years… can't believe it… can't believe scott, nakaya ka! lol… congrats again! regards to fafie… stay committed… btw, enjoyed reading this
Hi Jhoana! Thanks gurl. Of course, go lang. Kahit saan mo siya ilagay. Hahaha!
i'm gud ria,a nd nothing to do…piss off…working for 9 days straight…just keeping myself busy (ehemmm…playing online) sigh…..whew…tiring sitting all days LOL
i mean all day…mau ka pa da imo always gimik every friday night…hahaha….that's the remedy for staying young and pretty….hehehe
Thanks Marvi! You too.
Hi ring..i'm very ok pati na rin ang inaanak mo, dalaga na…wishing you all the best, always ring……God bless
Ay mas bongga dun…ako rin. Miss ko ang Melbourne pero wala na akong leave.Huhuhu! Just let me know kung pasyal ka dito ha.